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The Griffith family have been stateside for a few months (from their usual residence in West Africa) and just recently went to a cross cultural event here in town. Read below about how it reminded them of the importance of this kind of engagement, not just for them, but their children.
Our children imitate what my wife and I do as parents. They are watching, listening, learning, figuring out what life is all about and replicating it in their own life.
A few weeks ago, my wife and three boys, 4, 2, and 4 months old, decided to step out of our comfort zone and attend "The Bazaar" at the Islamic Cultural Center of Fresno. It was a great event, complete with a kids bounce house and lots of yummy food. It was healthy for our kids to once again see us interact with those of a different background than us. To see that it is normal.
While we were eating dinner, two ladies with head coverings came and sat down out our table. Silas, our 2 year old whispered to Arielle, “I don’t like these ladies.” Thankfully he did not say it very loud! Later we were able to talk to the boys about how people dress differently, but that does not mean we should not like them. This also reminded me of God’s love for all people of the world, with no exception, even if our culture, media, or whatever source tells us differently. And if we are not expressing this love to those around us, how will our kids catch this aspect of God’s love for all people of the world?
The model I give my children will most likely be the model they are going to follow. My wife and I have an incredible responsibility as parents. But are we stepping up to the plate? Sure we are going to strike out a few times and have our fair share of failures, but is our current trajectory headed toward being more Christ like?
Jesus made it clear in Matthew 28:19, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations…” Discipleship starts with me. Am I being discipled? Secondly, discipleship starts with my wife and kids, my friends, our neighbors, and those around the world. The only way my family is going to see Jesus in me is if I am following Jesus day by day.
About the Author: Del Griffith has a deep desire to "Help people connect to God in every neighborhood", including in the West African neighborhood he lives in most of time with his wife Arielle and their three young boys.
Want to hear more about Del or invite him to share with your group about his life and work in West Africa? E-mail missions@thewellcommunity.org